Post by OliveChan on Jul 7, 2013 13:48:25 GMT -7
When we first got together I tried everything to make them like me, I know they are from a different culture so I was mindful of how I presented myself. But now, I sometimes finding myself regretting moving up here with him. If me and him ever got into a fight, it was mostly about his mom.
His mom doesn't work, she doesn't even have her green card- she could be deported any second. Yet she choose to get pregnant, not only that she got pregnant when she was ready to hit the big four-Oh. That's fine if you want to ruin your life, just don't bring others down with you. Her and her boyfriend aren't even in a stable relationship, he actually filed charges on her for abuse.
Now I find that I'm suffering because of her actions. They constantly ask me when I'm getting a job- my husband doesn't care if I get one, he rather me freelance or do whatever I want yet they are trying to force me to work in some shithole! I went to school to get out of a shithole not the other way around and I still have school work to do! It's probably because they know they won't be getting as much money with my husband going to school and want me to take over, we pay over 1300 dollars for this place and we could easily find a cheaper one.
I'm also pissed that I can't start a family, I'm not allowed to get pregnant and if I were my husband, even though we have been married for 4 years and have never broken up- would suggest abortion (which I would never ever do because I don't believe in it for myself) because apparently we can't afford it, yet his mom can have one and not be able to fend for herself. I CAN.
She's about to give birth now within a week and his aunt is going to take care of her for a month or so.... guess were she's going to be living for that time? With US! we pay our own rent, we are over the age of 18 and yet we still have to cater to them. His aunt is a real bitch too, I wasn't allow to close the door when he lived with her when he was going to college. I wonder if she would make us sleep in separate rooms again. lol. I fucking hate his family.
This has caused so much problems in our relationship and I can't fight of the hate I have towards them, they make me so mad sometimes- I want to actually slap them.
His mom doesn't work, she doesn't even have her green card- she could be deported any second. Yet she choose to get pregnant, not only that she got pregnant when she was ready to hit the big four-Oh. That's fine if you want to ruin your life, just don't bring others down with you. Her and her boyfriend aren't even in a stable relationship, he actually filed charges on her for abuse.
Now I find that I'm suffering because of her actions. They constantly ask me when I'm getting a job- my husband doesn't care if I get one, he rather me freelance or do whatever I want yet they are trying to force me to work in some shithole! I went to school to get out of a shithole not the other way around and I still have school work to do! It's probably because they know they won't be getting as much money with my husband going to school and want me to take over, we pay over 1300 dollars for this place and we could easily find a cheaper one.
I'm also pissed that I can't start a family, I'm not allowed to get pregnant and if I were my husband, even though we have been married for 4 years and have never broken up- would suggest abortion (which I would never ever do because I don't believe in it for myself) because apparently we can't afford it, yet his mom can have one and not be able to fend for herself. I CAN.
She's about to give birth now within a week and his aunt is going to take care of her for a month or so.... guess were she's going to be living for that time? With US! we pay our own rent, we are over the age of 18 and yet we still have to cater to them. His aunt is a real bitch too, I wasn't allow to close the door when he lived with her when he was going to college. I wonder if she would make us sleep in separate rooms again. lol. I fucking hate his family.
This has caused so much problems in our relationship and I can't fight of the hate I have towards them, they make me so mad sometimes- I want to actually slap them.
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